tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2850843111367840408.post477074130907696006..comments2014-03-31T13:12:59.272+02:00Comments on Clueless: Fragile Thoughtsbatates_777http://www.blogger.com/profile/06140235806169586291noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2850843111367840408.post-28390319145481258032011-12-06T15:18:24.737+02:002011-12-06T15:18:24.737+02:00I always think " la yasse7 2ella elsa7ee7 &qu...I always think " la yasse7 2ella elsa7ee7 "<br />so doing the wrong, n thinking that it would be easily forgiven n forgotten,may end up in a wrong way ..with not forgiven nor forgotten, n may ALLAH not bless it kaman ! so I personally don't see it this way , even if I am not that conservative ! at all !<br />yet I always see the katb ketab is the best thing to do , after getting to know phase .coz it will make it halal .and I think elmohem that we obey to god's orders than ourselves and society's traditions.<br />it is hard to do I know,I wish we someday can change that thing in our society as well, the divocred woman dilemma.<br />personally I know a couple of ppl , who continued their lives smoothly and normally after that kind of break up ! I know its nasyeeb after all :)batates_777https://www.blogger.com/profile/06140235806169586291noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2850843111367840408.post-34065315230535281282011-12-06T13:51:56.688+02:002011-12-06T13:51:56.688+02:00I get your point, and understand the Dilemma , I g...I get your point, and understand the Dilemma , I guess most people would rather to the forbidden and ask God for forgiveness then actually risking the fact that they could be called divorcee.<br />unfortunately we can't change the society we live in ( at least not fast enough). Personally I wouldn't know what to do.Crystal Lobnahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09624030284660616487noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2850843111367840408.post-26801429111764413512011-12-06T11:56:40.910+02:002011-12-06T11:56:40.910+02:00Hello Crystal Lobna ,
Well, I totally agree with ...Hello Crystal Lobna ,<br /><br />Well, I totally agree with you , but if the two are in love , that engagement won't be fully 7ALAL, unless they can entirely control themselves, and never do a mistake ! you know that being together alone, even along a drive , whatever ! is 7aram ! n they shouldnt be left alone !<br />so who can handle this !<br />that's why katb ketab is for mainly! and it is samething as in nomral engamenet but it would be only halal, and then would be okay to express love and passion.<br />I too hate that label, but arn't we who label ppl ! i think if our community gets rid of those labels, it would be fine for someone to get divorced without the fear of bein labeled for her entire life !batates_777https://www.blogger.com/profile/06140235806169586291noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2850843111367840408.post-81248943006196733312011-12-06T10:29:21.000+02:002011-12-06T10:29:21.000+02:00Quick question why do you say that Katb ktab is th...Quick question why do you say that Katb ktab is the religious way to go? An engagement is something that exists in our religion and is totally fine. Why do you have to be labeled a divorcee without any need for it?Crystal Lobnahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09624030284660616487noreply@blogger.com