tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2850843111367840408.post5658256474156326146..comments2014-03-31T13:12:59.272+02:00Comments on Clueless: Do You believe in Friendship btw Man and Woman???batates_777http://www.blogger.com/profile/06140235806169586291noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2850843111367840408.post-72850713087040698372008-06-26T11:43:00.000+03:002008-06-26T11:43:00.000+03:00Damo...I totally agree with you ..this is the opti...Damo...I totally agree with you ..this is the optimum case for me , yet you can not always gurantee that your spouse and that friend will get along !!..this is one problem , its most likely they both not in good terms !! out of jealousy maybe comin from your spouse! maybe they not alike, two diff charcters!! donno...maybe things would be diff if that friend is already in a rel.,and they can bring him/her over...think then things would be okay !batates_777https://www.blogger.com/profile/06140235806169586291noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2850843111367840408.post-14319123902208731192008-06-26T08:41:00.000+03:002008-06-26T08:41:00.000+03:00hi Batates..i think it's fine to have friends of t...hi Batates..<BR/>i think it's fine to have friends of the opp. sex, however make sure that they know/spend time with both you and your spouse. Don't have private chit chats or emails. If you hang out with this friend, invite your spouse and any signifigant other of your friend as well. <BR/><BR/>you need to be honest with your spouse that this is just a friend, that you want your spouse and your friend to know eachother as well.nobodyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01395933352126996480noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2850843111367840408.post-87921812928277999512008-06-25T13:40:00.000+03:002008-06-25T13:40:00.000+03:00Hi There...replyin' to that part as definition of ...Hi There...<BR/><BR/>replyin' to that part as definition of close friend..I might disagree with you , coz you might hv a close friend yet he doesnt hv to know all about you , you dont see him that often yet ! it could be once a month though !! i rarely see my closest girl frenz by the way !! we rarely talk on the fone ! yet we r close ! so it doesnt hv to be a daily routine..<BR/>and there are limits...its all about the limits you set and how far that freind of the opp sex will be close ...there r few ppl you meet and they worthy your trust and they yet dont hv to be there all time in ur life and neednt be around all day !! and they are only friends..<BR/>For the Part about seen in public ! I guess that part has been resolved ages back ! meaning a guy and girl can be seen at any public place sittin for coffee or lunch or smth !! it is not forbidden by community laws !! and even ppl are acceptin it !!..so if my husband / boyfriend is okay with it and he already knows about that friend ,so why not sittin with him in public !! as long as all with respect !!...You could be goin for lunch with your coworkers ! you could join your girl workin with you for lunch ! or a walk to grab a cab ! or to go the next supermarket to buy smth! do you call this seen in public too !!batates_777https://www.blogger.com/profile/06140235806169586291noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2850843111367840408.post-77551635059050932412008-06-25T13:13:00.000+03:002008-06-25T13:13:00.000+03:00hey batates...thanks for this interestin topic tho...hey batates...thanks for this interestin topic though um not sure that the "Non Arabs" will find it interesting too..may cause they 've passed by this issues ages ago..anyway..i just need to comment on a specific part.. "is it okay that you got your ONE and still buildin friends of opposite sex ??"....for me "IT'S NOT OK AT ALL" i cant accept the idea that wife/girlfriend has another man in her life even as a "CLOSE" friend ..my defenition for close friend is the one yo might share with him your secrets,your problems..even your thoughts..someone who knows almost everything about you...what about if they are seen together in public, it will give the wrong impression. If they are alone on the phone or in person, they will subject themselves to the temptation of an emotional affair..umnot talking about physical affair...Yes trust is a main issue in a marriage and keeping close opposite friends can certainly damage that trust.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com